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Rules for dating women with children

Dating someone with kids can be tricky, but not impossible.

Now that you have mastered all five rules, you just need one more to get your training complete.

You can’t let these nasty thoughts of your partner going back to their ex.

Sure they share a kid, but having children does not guarantee a healthy marriage.

Are you able to see them getting into a defensive position? Do they give you straight answers and are confident about their new relationship with you? If you are dating someone with kids and you constantly bring it up, you are risking your entire relationship. Especially when they have just went through a difficult break up or a divorce.

They need some time to take it easy and not being pushed.

If you are dating someone with kids older than 10 years old, then you have to remember that they are going through their teen phase when things are uncertain. If they show some kind of disrespect, don’t take it personally. Even if they like you, they need to see strong evidence that you are “cool” enough for them. Competing with the real mother or father of the kids never ends well.

They have a huge advantage, so what’s the point of trying to compete with them? It’s not a competition where you need to show what a great mother you would be if it was you in the first place.

Even when they come over and stay with you, don’t fall into the trap of being called “mom”.