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Dating a shy guy help

If you like the guy, it’s up to you to become the calming influence in the conversation so he notices that energy.

As long as you’re engaged, and interested in what he has to say, he’s going to feel like he’s doing well and he’ll start to relax. The energy you feel from someone affects the dynamic of your interaction.

If he’s nervous and you start acting nervous, it’s going to double the nervous energy and will uncomfortable for both of you.

The weird thing is, whenever you go to talk to him or make conversation he starts getting really nervous and edgy. You need to understand something very important about this man. I’ve asked a few women why they think men get nervous around them, and some feel like the change in behavior is a deliberate attempt to turn her off, or to show he isn’t interested in her. When he’s talking to the bar man or waiter he’s Mr.

Why does he go from super confident and bold with his friends, to quiet and nervous around you? It seems so obvious to me as a man, but to women, it can come across as a man being unfriendly deliberately. Confidence, but when he starts talking to you he becomes Mr. Maybe his voice is even shaking he’s that nervous around you. I mean, he’s a good-looking guy and you want to get to know him.

Shy guys tend to keep to themselves, too timid to become part of a conversation, hoping not to become the center of attention, and mostly, even though sometimes they have all the qualities to make them desirable, it isn’t obvious to others due to their shyness.

And some guys are so shy, they find it difficult to even make eye contact with a person of the opposite gender, let alone court her!

But never make her feel like she’s being interrogated on one of the ubiquitous crime TV shows.