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Advice online dating messaging

Men are visual creatures; we base a lot of our initial judgements on a woman’s looks long before we get to know her as a person.

If he doesn't reply to the second message, don't get despondent.

It's his loss not yours and, frankly, just plain bad manners not to even send a brief acknowledgment to a message – so just move on.

If he doesn't respond within a week, then you can send another – brief – message.

People who are new to the site are often inundated with responses and he could still be working his way through them.

Or just weed through the messages that may come in. At it’s ultimate base, dating is the evolved equivalent of a mating dance as men and women are trying to determine whether or not they would want to reproduce with each other.

When we go through the motions of dating, we’re evaluating one another on a number of levels – physical attractiveness and facial symmetry as indicators of health and desirable traits, the ability to provide for young and to protect the young from predators and raise them to sexual maturity.

Be wary of revealing a lot of personal details about yourself until you feel sure about the person.